I know some will read this blog's title and wonder about the name "Jimmer." Here's the skinny -
As a kid several family members on my Mom's side called me "Jimmer." I was never really fond of it and I was glad to eventually grow out of it so to speak. And then -
Well - One year at the MJB, my Mom called me Jimmer in front of my hockey teammates. Oops! Hockey teammates by definition are required to hassle each other one way or another as much as possible - all in fun of course. Ever been in a locker room? Put it this way - I wouldn't let my kids anywhere near ours. But as I say it's all fun - until your Mom pulls out a nickname you just don't like - and the guys know it. Suddenly I was Jimmer on the ice and I did not like it one bit.
However - in the past couple of years I've spent a lot of time trying to measure the true intent of people as I interact with folks and it occurred to me that my teammates meant no harm - in fact quite the opposite is / was probably the case. And as I'm getting older I'm really more appreciative that someone wants to call me something besides a**hole, idiot, jerk etc...
So the nickname stays and as the true appreciation for the name starts with my hockey team - well -
At my core, I am a hockey player, not because I'm all that good at the game, but more because of my mindset - a certain set of values and teamwork that I've tried to develop over my almost 40 years. It's something that I'm passionate about and care about quite a bit. My hockey team is my second family - so as a call out to the fellas - the life of Jimmer goes into print.
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Jimmer?
Posted by
Jim Brochowski
on Thursday, August 14, 2008
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Meet Jimmer
- Jim Brochowski
- Daddy, Honey, Coach, Captain. I have an awesome wife and three wonderful daughters. Hockey player, golfer, aspiring writer. Retired from the library after 30 years of public service. My daughters let me think I run the MJB Foundation. I am the Captain of Brian's Bail Bonds Hockey - a position I feel privileged to hold even if it does only mean I make the lines 12 seconds before each game - That's not 15 mind you, but 12 exactly. I enjoy a good conversation with family and friends. I'd like to think I'm "Fiercely" (thanks Christian) loyal. I give when I have and I hold on when I don't. My family is everything to me.
6 comments:
I am the same way with the name Jimmy but as I get older I find myself enjoying the childhood name once more.
Yeah, I was called Nicky until I went to middle school and intentionally ditched the name. These days I think it has something of a "Sopranos Chic" about it...
I won't even mention (although you probably know) what my dad used to call me growing up. He used to love to yell it across the full gymnasium while I played basketball. Now I know it was his way of cheering me on but man, did I hate it!
And yay, Jim is blogging!
Yes, glad to see you blogging!
Bail Bonds Hockey Rules! See you on the ice dude. Fall season is just around the corner (do we even have a goalie yet?).
~J
I can't believe you didn't call this "The Life of Twit"! Or Dude. Or the 5 million other names I call you.
Nice to see you blogging. I love reading other people stuff and HATE to post my own. Maybe Learn & Play and Becky off at college will cure me of that.
--Dweeb
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